{"id":3353,"date":"2020-03-24T15:35:23","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T20:35:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.grammarianinthecity.com\/?p=3353"},"modified":"2020-03-24T15:35:26","modified_gmt":"2020-03-24T20:35:26","slug":"gratitude-of-course","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grammarianinthecity.com\/?p=3353","title":{"rendered":"Gratitude, Of Course"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I usually write about silly or pretentious language, but not today. Instead I want to talk about some very brave people and, because this is a language blog, about the language those people use. Almost three years ago, for a period of about six months, I spent a lot of time in a hospital where someone I loved was losing the fight for his life. In addition to keeping track of his medicines and treatments, I listened to the language around me. That&#8217;s what I do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It struck me that every time I thanked someone &#8212; and there were many, many occasions to do so &#8212; the response was the same: &#8220;of course.&#8221; It was odd at first. The traditional response is &#8220;you&#8217;re welcome,&#8221; but it was a cancer hospital, so &#8220;welcome&#8221; wasn&#8217;t really appropriate. No one wanted to be there as a patient, and the caregivers would have preferred not to &#8220;welcome&#8221; anyone to the world of cancer. Newer responses &#8212; &#8220;no problem&#8221; and its close cousin, &#8220;no worries&#8221; &#8212; were horribly inaccurate.  Because language arises from necessity and creativity, &#8220;of course&#8221; stepped into the breach. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As I watched hospital personnel reattach IV bags and adjust beds, medications, tubing, and all the other accoutrements of illness, I knew they did so because <em>of course <\/em>they didn&#8217;t want anyone to suffer. <em>Of course <\/em>they wanted sick people to receive the best care. <em>Of course <\/em>they&#8217;d take time to explain,  to reassure, to comfort, and to tend in every way to the needs of patients and their families. It is, I believe, a kind of love. The very best kind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So now, <em>of course <\/em>they&#8217;re working to save us from the virus. <em>Of course <\/em>they&#8217;re putting their own lives at risk. And <em>of course<\/em> we should thank them whenever we can. But not just with words: every precaution we take to safeguard our own health is a precaution we take to safeguard theirs. Is it difficult to give up the routines of daily life? <em>Of course. <\/em>Is it necessary? <em>Of course<\/em>. Should those in charge do everything &#8212; everything! &#8212; to give them the supplies they need? <em>Of course.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And because I&#8217;m a creature of words, I add these: Thank you, doctors, nurses, EMTs, aides, clerks, and everyone else taking care of us. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I usually write about silly or pretentious language, but not today. Instead I want to talk about some very brave people and, because this is a language blog, about the language those people use. 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